Thursday, June 14, 2012

Peace

We at Team Cathy would like to thank everybody for all of the thoughts, prayers, cards, well wishes and help you have offered Cathy as she has battled cancer for over a year now. You have helped make a difficult journey more tolerable. It is with great sadness that we tell you that Cathy has now entered Hospice Care. After much thought, consultations with doctors and discussions, Cathy and our team have decided that we are no longer going to pursue any treatment options and are instead focusing on keeping Cathy comfortable. The disease has rendered Cathy to a quality of life that is not fair to her or anyone. It is the opinion of her doctor and us that any more treatments will only delay the inevitable, cause an enormous amount of pain for Cathy, and actually make her final days much worse. Instead we have decided to let her choose how she wants to spend her final days, which is in her own bed with her family close to her.

Cathy battled courageously, in her quiet, dignified way, cracking jokes and smiling often despite her situation. Her oncologist and nurses were brought to tears, which is not easy when you work in oncology and become used to losing patients, but Cathy is that type of person - charming every one whose life she touches.

8 comments:

  1. We wish Cathy sweet peace that being surrounded by family and loved ones can provide. We wish for great strength for Kyle and their child during this unspeakably tough time - something that many of us are too familiar with.

    Randi

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  2. Cathy, wishing so much I could hug your neck. Many prayers and so much love going out to you, my friend...

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  3. Cathy, I send love, love, love to you. Words can't really do my feelings justice. You have made a difference in SO many lives. I am glad you will not be in pain much longer. You are all in my prayers.

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  4. Cathy I send you love and peace...

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  5. The Wongster,
    You are in our thoughts and prayers.
    Love,
    The Marsh's
    Kevin, Donna and Jack

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  6. Cathy,
    You are in my thoughts and prayers. It was been 20 or so years since I have seen you, but I treasure the memories of the girls on Center Street. (It seemed like you lived there anyway:))
    Laura Gorman (Ziegler)

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  7. All my thoughts and prayers to my first friend and roommate in Geneseo, who was so thoughtful and wasn't shy like myself, and told everything about herself so we wouldn't have to be strangers on day 1. Wong, you never could be a stranger to anyone who has ever met you. You are so warm, honest and always true to who and what you are and what you stood for. Anyone who knows you, well, they should consider themselves lucky for knowing you. All my love and prayers that I will see you again. I am at a loss on how to express my

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  8. It's been almost seven months, and we here on planet earth still miss you so much! I know you wouldn't want grieving to still be going on; that is your way. Please feel free to visit whenever the wind takes you that way.

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